Another thing I have no control over, my sponsee who went out and used Sunday. I am learning to detach so that I can still help her if she wants help. And that's the bottom line. But I'm still new at this and though better than I was, its still painful. I'll keep my hand out but its up to her to grab it and as long as someone grabs it, then I'm doing what I need to stay sober for myself. Hopefully I will be able to distinguish between enabling and helping as far as she is concerned. I guess that's what my sponser is for and thankfully I will be meeting with her today.
For him who flew the nest
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